We were compatible when it came to splitting up the driving. I was an early morning, all-day driver, and Clay was more of a night person. So when we’d leave the rodeo, he typically took the wheel until the next morning, then I’d get up and could go the rest of the day.
What Not to Do as a Partner
As for partner don’ts, you aren’t always going to get your way, and you don’t always have to be right. It can’t just be your way or the highway, so you need to have some give and take between you.
Don’t be a deadbeat when it comes to paying your way. To this day, Clay and I pay for every other meal and every other tank of fuel. If you can’t pay your part, stay home.
Don’t be the header who throws your head back if your heeler messes up, or pops the tail of your rope in the air riding out of the arena if things don’t go your way. That’s not good for your team, and will not turn things around for you. Heelers who head the steer when their header misses might want to rethink that move, too. They do it out of frustration, but it’s a no-no in my book and you might as well look over at him, call him an idiot and say, “Look how easy this is.”
If you put a magnifying glass on some of the most successful teams, like Speed (Williams) and Rich (Skelton), or Clay and I, we were neighbors who lived right there in the same town. That made a lot of practice possible. To this day, I’m baffled at how those guys managed to win eight championships in a row. That’s insane.
Not every successful team is going to have a perfect combination of personalities. But if you find that winning combo, ride that horse until the wheels fall off and put personalities aside, if you have to. Back in that box, make your run, win, ride out and ride on.
Being a good teammate takes a lot of effort. It’s grueling to maintain a spot at the top of the mountain. That’s what everybody wants, but nobody said it would be easy. What’s been proven over time is that the better partner you are, the more money you’re going to win.
—TRJ—
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